Years ago, she experienced a period where she was deeply lost in her own thoughts, struggling with depression. Life felt hazy and devoid of meaning, and she yearned for the sense of purpose and fulfilment that others appeared to possess, yet she couldn't seem to discover it. Emotionally, she was adrift, and she had lost her way in life.
Determined to escape this emotional quagmire, she worked on herself, in relentless pursuit of answers and the true meaning of life itself. She became what some might affectionately call a "self-help enthusiast," or a “course junkie” eagerly attending one course after another, one personal development program after another, in thirst, devouring knowledge from every corner of the world.
Amid this whirlwind of self-discovery, she stumbled upon a profound revelation—a set of four steps that illuminated the path she had been searching for. Combining all that she has learned from the courses and personal development programs with these steps, she discovered a lifeline to clarity, rescuing her from the abyss of confusion. They are the mindset, skillsets, knowledge and broad guides she needed in her search for clarity.
Step 1: Recognize and Acknowledge the Situation - she began by bravely facing the harsh reality of her depression and the state she is in. Instead of evading or denying it, she confronted it head-on. She acknowledged the darkness that had enveloped her life because, only by recognizing the problem, could she hope to overcome it.
Step 2: Accept the Present State - With a heavy and broken heart, she learned the art of acceptance. She embraced her current circumstances, however grim they may have seemed. She found a glimmer of peace amidst the chaos by letting go of resistance. Acceptance, she realized, was the bridge between despair and hope.
Step 3: Define the Desired Outcome and Goals - With newfound perspectives on her situation and a sense of acceptance, she dared to plan and dream once more. She outlined the future she desired, setting meaningful goals that resonated with her heart and soul. These goals became guiding stars, lighting the way forward.
Step 4: Take Action and Let Go of Attachment - she took action, changing her habits, little by little with a clear vision and a determined spirit. But she also learned the invaluable art of detachment. She released her tight grip on desires on matters she had no control over and allowed them to unfold naturally. She understood that the journey itself held the true essence of life's richness.
Over time, she discovered that the journey to clarity has given her these wonderful gifts:
Understanding of Self: Clarity allowed her to dive deep into her own being, uncovering her true self and what truly mattered to her.
Alignment with Values: With clarity, she could align her actions and choices with her core values, ensuring that she walked a path that resonated with her heart.
Goal Setting: Clarity provided the foundation for setting meaningful goals, giving her purpose and direction.
Resilience: In moments of hardship, clarity acted as a wellspring of resilience, reminding her of the significance of her journey.
Decision-Making: It simplified decision-making, allowing her to navigate life's choices with confidence and purpose.
Meaningful Relationships: Clarity extended its grace to her relationships, helping her connect more authentically with those who shared her values.
Legacy: Finally, clarity inspired her to leave a meaningful legacy, one that reflected her journey, her growth, and the wisdom she had gathered along the way.
She has come to understand that discovering clarity isn't so straightforward. It's a journey of self-discovery, involving continuous self-reflection, confronting our inner struggles, and becoming our own ally. However, it's truly worthwhile because the best way to use our two most precious resources, time and energy, is to invest in our own personal growth and development. She has studied and explored various courses and personal development programs and two that resonated very well with her are Chinese Metaphysics and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).
She has applied their techniques and found them to be incredibly effective in her search for clarity. In addition to her decade-long journey in the corporate realm, where she dedicated herself to corporate recovery, management, and restructuring, and another decade in the commercial and education sectors, she realized that she could effectively relate to individuals and corporate leaders as they seek clarity for their personal and professional aspirations, dreams, and goals.
For her, Clarity is the Power of Insight. Each of us already holds the answers deep within us—our desired way of living, our genuine needs, and our preferred approach and path to life. All that is required is for us to unearth that clarity from within.
“We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves.” ~ Galileo Galilei, Astronomer, Physicist, and Mathematician ~