I am truly blessed to have you in my life!! Through Today's write-up, I decided to write out of the way a few words to my beloved better half, as a tribute to all the pious sisters who shape their hereafter by the dint of their willpower to do wonders.
Things would not have been the same if you weren't around. In all my ups and downs, good and bad times, you stood by me like a rock. You accepted me as an imperfect being and agreed I am way messier than I should have been. You are my answered prayer, my fulfilled wish, my realized dream.
Thanks a lot for tolerating my senseless talks, throwing things everywhere, and forgetting a couple of things every time I go shopping. And, big thanks for cooking all the yummy dishes. Add to it, not just your wife, you have been the best mother and a daughter-in-law.
My wife helps me with Holy Book recitation! She recites and reads Holy Book fluently!! She had done graduation in Arabic as one of subjects! I have not read Arabic as a language!! I have transliteration/translation of a holy book by Yusuf Ali, I have memorized various chapters of holy book.
I am lucky that my soulmate accepted me as a person. One who did not have a government job (which going by the current trends in the first criteria people look for). She is better than me in every aspect! Though my writings have a wide reach still she is my counselor! She advices me and draw my attention towards great things in life! Life is a beyond Government job!
Some tips for a better relationship:
1. Do not be a Dictator:
A husband should not act as a dictator or cruel behavior. The most perfect man in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behavior, and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives.
2. Be partners in the decision making:
Make decisions jointly, it will definitely increase love and affection.
3. Never be abusive:
Never abuse your better half.
4. Be careful of your words:
Always choose the words of love and affection. Never hurt your wife with bitter words. Be honorable in conversation.
5. Show kindness:
Show kindness to your better half. Be kind, gentle, and loving.
6. Be your wife's friend:
Enjoy life together as friends. Share your sad and joyful moments together.
7. Always appreciate your soulmate:
Always appreciate her thoughts and projects, and every time makes her feel special.
8. Give your spouse time:
Always give quality time to your better half. She will feel great and appreciated.
9. Admit your Mistakes:
If you mistake admit it and if your better half makes a mistake forgive her. Never be angry with her.
The essence of the above-mentioned points can be beautifully summed in one sentence: Always treat your spouse the way you would like to be treated.
I expressed my love and affection for my wife on Facebook and I received a beautiful comment as feedback from Sister Lubna Sultan Durrani, she is a Judge (Judicial Magistrate) by profession said and I quote her words!!
Lucky woman! Brother Raashid Ul Nabi Khan You are a rare person who is writing such beautiful lines for your better half and that too on social media only the pious and God-fearing men dare to appreciate and feel proud for their wives.
Most men feel shameful and less of being a man if they feel or speak good about their wives, they feel as if they lost prestige if they talk or shower their love over their wives... even their family or people around them look down upon those men if they become vocal or expressive about their feelings towards their wife.
I truly feel respect for you for expressing your feeling for our sister, it must be encouraging her to be her best and make her realize her full potential as a wife, mother and daughter-in-law. Happiness breeds efficiency in relationships.
God bless you both and protect your love from the evil eye..!!